Do you flirt?
Since I can't sleep
I figure I might as well blog. I'll probably sleep after this but then I know I'm going to be tired at work tomorrow. I've been thinking about this flirting thing and I guess I have a few questions that I'll just toss out. I was really hoping no one was reading my blog so to an extent I guess they would be rhetorical questions but as it appears that I've been found, maybe I'll get some answers too.
1. Do you flirt? Alot? If you know me do you think I flirt alot?
2. Are you successful in your flirting? I really dont know how one knows if they're successful. What is the end result of flirting?
3. Do you think you/I should flirt less? Why?
These are just the silly questions that wander in and out of my mind at 5am when I should be asleep.
Side Note: I'm loving my new contacts. They are so awesome. I got a trial pair of CibaVisions 30 day lenses and they are supposed to be 70% water based and lubricate from tears alone. I've had mine in for going on a week now and haven't taken them out nor had my eyes really dry out. That's one of my main issues with contacts in the past, dryness. Too bad I'd already bought a 3 month supply of some others. I'm definitely getting me more of these.
posted by BlindSlim~CSTL at 5:04 AM
6 comments
6 Comments:
I do flirt. Sometimes too much. I do think that you flirt a lot.
Not always. Twice I have become emotionally involved. Once with my GF and another that has broken my heart.
I am for the most part okay with how much I flirt. Sometimes I may go a bit overboard and I have to watch it. Only because of 1)my heartbreak and 2)sometimes people who I flirt with think that it will lead to more.
How much you flirt is up to you and your comfort level. Just try not to let anyone get hurt.
Thanks Carey ~
Yes I do flirt a lot and think sometimes maybe I should flirt less.
I dont know if I would say I'm a successful flirt. It's easier for me to flirt online because I have a hard time talking to women in person or approaching. If it weren't for this medium I'd definitely had less GF's.
I always worry about hurting someone and try to avoid it at all costs. Sometimes no matter what you do though, people get hurt and that's something I've not been able to deal with. Seeing people hurt crushes my spirit.
I guess I'll have to try and find a happy medium with my flirting.
I flirt. Sometimes a lot, depends on who it is I am flirting with. Like I might dip my toe and test the water a little first. Sometimes you do. But that is not neccessarily a bad thing.
Sometimes. To me the end result, is that both people...or more lol...walk away from it happy. Flirting is fun, all involved should have fun.
I think sometimes I need to flirt more. Because it is fun. Not going to answer about you, because everyone has to fund their own place. What is comfortable to them, and the people that they are flirting with, basically what is comfortable for all people involved.
I think that is the key. Finding out what other people are comfortable with. I have been known to flirt with someone and then found out that they weren't comfortable. I think you are right Tara. Test the water, see how people respond to the test and go from there. I will test the water and if I get no response then I back up and stop. If I get a response then I will continue to test the waters.
I've learned that lesson too Carey and since an unfortunate incident last year where I was'nt intentionally flirting, I've learned to definitely test the waters when I do intend to flirt.
looky looky at who is under me...
*giggle*
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