Yes
I had a surprisingly great weekend with Tara and Ryan. It was surprising because going into the weekend there was the very real chance that we were going to break up. Instead we've come out of it stronger than ever and without doubt ready for the next phase of our relationship. I wouldn't say that all of my issues have been fixed because they haven't. However, we have addressed them and put them out in the open which makes it a lot easier to deal with them. Actually, it's probably more that it forces you to deal with them but however it comes out, that it came out allowed us to do something that we'd not really been doing (especially from my end) in a while and that's communicating.
It's the key to a lot more than just relationships but it is very big and the fact that I have learned to be open again with my feelings, even the ones I dont like to share is going to help. I'll read one post down at least once a day plus the scathing email I got from one of my best friends telling me to stop being an asshat to remind me of what I almost lost. So Yes, I do love her enough to do the things necessary to ensure that we make it.
Oh yeah , there was lots of scrumping too. My bedroom issues aren't so much with being able to perform as what I will/wont do during the performance *grin*

4 Comments:
Glad yall had a great weekend. It sounds wonderful. I'm really happy for the 2 of you.
This sounds wonderful Steve. I'm glad you were able to work on things, and I know your love for each other will continue to see you through.
Thanks both of you. Coming into these last few posts I'm sure some folks are going to be a bit lost and I dont think we were close enough for me to point you to it back then Tab but
http://slharri.blogspot.com/2005_02_01_slharri_archive.html
The posts on this page probably give a lot of background on the issues that have found their way into my every relationship.
This is great. I think it's important that both of you know there's no sense in blaming, just improving yourselves and your relationship. I'm so happy you are working things out.
*smooch*
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