Good vibes for my Love
It's never easy being far away from the ones you love. It's even harder when they get sick or have medical issues. I dont know how many people have seen the Dairy Queen commercial where the man and his pregnant wife exchange dreams and the man is sitting in the stirrups in labor yelling "You did this to me." Well today is one of those days I wish I could switch places with my baby. This pregnancy has been tough on her all around from the emotional changes to the physical anguish and upset stomachs but last night she was feeling so awful that it was killing me that I couldn't do anything more to help or make her feel better.
Around 1am I think she told me she felt so bad she was going to have her dad take her down to the Emergency Room. They both called me this morning to let me know that she may have appendicitis. That's most definitely not what we were wanting to hear with her 4 months pregnant and us living so far apart. She's doing ok though and they said the baby is fine but if they have to operate they will have to do a CT Scan which has the potential of having long term effects on the baby. We are hoping that it doesn't come to that but are definitely open to well wishes and prayers. I'll update as soon as we know more about where things are headed.
***UPDATE: ***
Because my baby is very quick to check things out when she doesn't feel well they caught the bacterial infection in her appendix before it could become full blow appendicitis. This is good news is that they were able to treat it with antibiotics and she should be able to go home today or tomorrow. We're very relieved because it means no CT Scan which had the potential of causing Leukemia in the baby.
She's resting more comfortably in her hospital room and waiting to eat now. They wouldn't let her have anything water, food nothing from midnight until they reran the bloodwork so my baby is hungry.
I want to thank everyone for their well-wishes and prayers and I can't wait till she is here by my side permanently. I know that being without me the last few days was much harder on her than me and it wasn't easy on me at all. Nothing like having a loved one ill and not being able to do anything even as simple but profoundly helpful as just holding their hand.
Latest Update
Everything looks good and we expect her to be released tomorrow to go home. They listened to the baby's heartbeat again tonight and everything is good there as well. The biggest problem today was simple boredom. I spoke with her most of the day while not even pretending to work and then again this evening but it's still not quite like being there.
Thanks again to all our wonderful friends here.

18 Comments:
oh no,
Poor Syren. Plaese send her good wishes.
*sending good wishes and hugs* to Syren
Thanks ladies, she's still resting and waiting for the doctor to decide which way they need to proceed. We've got our fingers crossed as it sounds like they might be able to resolve it without surgery.
You know you'll both be in my thoughts and prayers.
{{hugs}}
She is in my thoughts and prayers. *hugs*
Wow, what a dilemma. I've never heard of appendicitis during pregnancy. I wish you both the best in resolving this issue. Positive vibes being sent your way.
Wow, hugs to both of you. What a stressor you don't need right now!
Oh no! I hope it all works out without surgery - for you, for Syren, and especially for the baby!
x crosses my fingers x
Thanks for the update. Poor Syren. Gawd, I just don't know what to say other than, give her my love.
So glad she is going to be OK!
I hope you get some rest as well!
Thanks for the update. Add me to the list of people sending continued good thoughts. *hugs* for you both
Oh gosh!
*sends extra special good vibes to the babymomma*
Glad to know it was caught early!
Whew! Thanks for the update. Hope she's home soon.
Anything new? Is she home yet?
Thanks for the continued thoughts. They checked on the baby again today and she's doing very well but we still dont know the sex. T should be discharged tomorrow but we're not sure what time as of yet.
Ack! I didn't see this.
Just wanted to send good vibes your way.
*smooches* to you all.
glad all is getting better. Wish she had a laptop at her disposal w/ the net. We'd keep her occupied!
I didn't see this either! Retroactive good thoughts and *hugs* to syren.
More good thoughts for the whole lot of you.
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