New friends and Old friends

One week, seven days and I'll be a happily married man. Very very happily married. And if you've been reading my blog you'll have already heard my HWM story. This is a sort of very short and quick redux from an interesting chat session I had with an old female friend who T knows and with whom the flirting has often gone way beyond what I would post on the blog. Again we both chat with her and we both enjoy the flirting sometimes but not everytime as evidenced below. The names have been left out to protect the guilty and the guilty..hehe In true story telling form I'm in Red text and she's in Blue text.

you were really really mean to me last week

i blew up because you put your needs before hers and i felt like she wasn't being fully taken care of you were mean to her, i think you are a little greedy sometimes

you're probaby right...that's the thing...i know that you're right a lot of times and it hurts...really hurts...me and T , we are doing awesome, better than ever before...and i should have included her too...but i was stupid and greedy and didn't , the teasing was fun but as for me and T, we were and are doing so great,

i did not mean to hurt you but i wanted you to understand that it could hurt her if more I liked you too much and not in the just friends way

well i definitely wouldn't want to hurt you either. there is nothing and no one that can come between me and her. She is my heart and my life and though the fact there I can sometimes find myself attracted to other women, she's the woman i'm meant to spend the rest of my life with and I know that and knew it from shortly after we met

i know that also just from your words like this and if i keep our friendship in mind and that, I know that we can continue to be good friends.

can i ask how you knew that shortly after you met her

we built a connection before we met, i guess somewhat like you and i have here....it was easy to be completely open with her and we shared like we'd known each other forever and would never have to worry about our darkest secrets getting out or the other not liking us because of them
i thought she was beautiful from day one and even though at that time i wasn't that attracted to thicker women, our connection went so far beyond the physical that it never was a factor...it just always felt right

that is so nice what you say about her but if she wasnt exactly your type then what would happen if someone more your more type came along

oh and i'm not worried about finding someone that meets my exact physical type...i found someone that is my soul mate and lover. I fantasize on occasion as most men do i'm sure of the others that I'd wanted or chased through the years...but no one else will claim my heart, it belongs to her and has even longer than she realized at first

really how long have you known that she was it

july 22nd of last year

you even know the date why then?

that was the second time we met in person....we'd known each other since february and had grown very close by may and met in june and i just felt like we would always be with each other somehow by then, i didn't know if it meant as man and wife or as just very good friends but I knew that we would always be together somehow.

When we met again in July, I knew that she was the one.

As with most chat sessions, punctuation and grammar go completely out the window but what is left is the same love and adoration that I've felt for my soon-to-be bride since that day in July.